As I stared up into the sterile light and felt the slipperiness of pale bluish-green rubber on my lips and the scratch of instruments of dental torture on my teeth, it occurred to me, Hey. Today is my day to post on the PAN. I thought I should use the opportunity of my captivity to dream up the most intelligent and provoking post yet to grace the blog. Unfortunately, as the nice lady jabbed my gums, all I could think of was “Pain is Gain”.
This is actually a peculiar thing. People will go through all sorts of pains — physical and otherwise — for gain.
Take, for example, girls. Maybe this is not the case for everyone, but if I want to do my hair up to look nice, it hurts. Gravity and long hair don’t make cheerful bedfellows, as they say. (Or actually they don’t. But it would be funny if they did.) But I keep it, and I put it up, despite the headaches and stuff, because I gain a good appearance.
This works with things other than hair. Think of maybe the person who gets up at 5 every day, even though he hates getting up early, to go to work because he wants to have a certain job that brings a certain salary or image or whatever else that job might bring him.
Think of the student who piles on credits and extracurricular activities so as to appear smart and studious and to “get ahead in life”, even though he knows that no employer ever will care whether or not he took Art of Asia.
And of course, to go back to where I started from, there’s the issue of dentics and orthodontics and cosmetic surgery. That’s real physical pain with gain that is also (purely?) physical.
Of course, none of these things are wrong in themselves (I should hope not, since I used myself as an example in two). But where is the line? At what point is the gain worth the pain? At what point does seeking personal enrichment become setting up stumbling blocks?
Here is a suggestion: perhaps many of the little pains and discomforts and stresses we complain about are actually self inflicted. Perhaps even most.
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Posted at 4:51 pm EST on the 17th of June 2009 by V. K. Blake. Under Sundry as Pain There are 3 replies. |
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Very insightful! I think it is important to remember that the point of suffering is not suffering, but the rewards received from it, eh? It reminds me of Hebrews 12:1-2 “Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us, looking unto Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith, who for the joy that was set before Him endured the cross, despising the shame, and has sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.”
Well, you know, in some cases, going to the dentist you don’t necessarily get a physical gain, but you will gain the ability to use your teeth without your jaw going haywire, for instance…
You don’t mention mental pain involved with dental work. Have you never cringed at the sight of a needle poised, glistening, straining to pierce your shrinking gums? Have you never rued that whining drill which grinds your teeth into smoke? Have you ever had real surgery on your dental hardware? All this, and more, causes the severe pain of anticipation, which, though it often outweighs the actual pain, does not feel any less real.